I am proud to announce that I am currently in the process of compiling various materials in an attempt to produce the definitive guide to gay sex. This book is tentatively known as the ” Idiot’s Guide to Gay Sex” and if i’m lucky enough, I might get it published under the best-selling Idiot’s Guide series. I will be working closely with various individuals with vast experiences and knowledge on the subject matter including my notorious friend, Prof Jimmy aka Aleya Natasya aka Mrs. Dee Dee.
It is our aspiration that through this book we will be able to demonstrate (in a very graphic manner) the importance of good sex in order to maintain a healthy and happy gay relationship. Let me give you a private tour on the first few chapters of this book……………….ENJOY.
Chapter 3: The Art of Foreplay
Introduction
Foreplay is usually regarded as the warm up session before the actual action takes place. Sometimes in a rush to achieve orgasm i.e. via fucking, this very important step is often neglected. Many fail to acknowledge that a man does not have just a single G-Spot but various spots scattered throughout the body. It is up to you to find them, ignite them and when all his sexual senses achieve maximum perception, you are on your way to experience the best sex of your lifetime. Foreplay is also an act of bonding, you are trying to tell your couple that you are not just interested in his dick or ass hole, but you appreciate his body as a whole. If you are creative enough, your couple may even achieve orgasm even without getting any fucking done. Well, enough said, I hope by now i have somehow convinced you about the importance of foreplay in a sexual intercourse. Let’s get started.
I usually approach foreplay from top to bottom. The most important step to remember is always keep off his dick until the very last minute when you’re ready to get fucked. For a topper, going for his ass hole too early during foreplay may get him the wrong impression that you’re rushing off to fuck someone else. Without proper stimulation the ass hole may not be very receptive and you’ll just end up frustrated when it fails to open completely. Take your time to enjoy your couple’s body and you will be rewarded in a very satisfying way. Actually, there is no fast rules on how to start foreplay, creativity, passion and lust for your partner’s body will guide you along the way. Another important aspect of foreplay is switching roles. You have to take turns with your couple to take the lead. Believe me when i say, that taking the lead makes you feel stronger and powerful, and that makes any man hot and sexy. When he’s in charge, play along, don’t just lie there like a dummy, a positive reaction enhances your partner’s mood thus encourage him to push further and go all the way.
In order to have a better understanding on the steps that i will illustrate below, kindly refer to the very sexy diagram I’ve included in my previous post, “Find His G Spot”. Let’s get started.
The Head
You can start by stroking your partner’s head in a very gentle way. Running your fingers through his hair helps him relax and gets him in the mood. If your couple has very short hair, run your fingers over his scalp, that will definitely turns him on. The areas behind his ear is a very sensitive spot, gentle nudging with your nose and sofly kissing with your lips usually works. Some will proceed with gently nibbling (definitely not biting) the ears and some gobble everything up. It all depends on how horny you are during that time. Personally i’m not a big fan of getting saliva all over my ears especially into the ear holes. When you’re all horny and ready for action, you’re breath starts getting heavy and hot, get very close to your couple and breath down his neck, that usually gets him in the mood. Start caressing his neck gently with your nose and lips and work all the way down to the nape of his neck. Start kissing and sucking this area but before even thinking of making a lovebite, get your partner’s permission before you do so. A lovebite on the neck can be very difficult to hide and getting rid of it takes time. Not everyone likes having their sex life out in the open. From there, work your way down the cheek, kissing and softly biting along the way before you get to the lips and start kissing.
Kissing
Kissing is a very important part of foreplay. When you’re having sex with a straight guy, you may find it a tad disappointing since they usually avoid kissing you on the lips. They may enjoy having their dick sucked or ramming their dick into your ass holes but they still cannot grasp the idea of kissing another guy on the lips. So, why is kissing such a big deal? Kissing is the first part of exchanging bodily fluids in a sexual intercourse. Kissing is a very romantic gesture and its takes a certain amount of passion to start kissing someone on the lips. Kissing is even more intimate than touching and groping, since in order to make it work, it requires consent from both parties. So, how to be a good kisser?
You start kissing by gently touching your lips to your partner’s and slowly increases the pressure until he opens his mouth. Once you’re in, use you’re tongue to explore the inside of the mouth, you’re tongue is very sensitive, try to appreciate the moist and hot inside of his mouth. This part gets even more playful if you have a piece of sweet handy. Try to catch hold of his tongue with your lips and start sucking on his tongue and gently increases the pressure and release it when he starts getting out of breath. Careful not to overdo it and at all times try not to bite his tongue. Forget about ever kissing him again if you do so. Be creative and alternate between superficial kissing and deep french kiss. Monotony just kills the mood. Kissing a very big part of foreplay, so take your time doing it.
To be continued…………………………………..
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